My kitten’s biting and scratching is out of control. Help!

Dear Most Esteemed and Knowledgeable Kitties:

My 4-month-old kitten, Marcel, has been a real problem boy: biting, scratching, attacking, etc. I know this is kitten play, and they are trainable, but I’ve tried out all the advice I’ve read about and nothing is working.

He doesn’t mind the spray bottle. Hissing at him sometimes works but sometimes gets him more excited and agitated, making for crazier attacks. I try to stay calm and tell him “no” but it’s hard when he’s just inflicted a wound. I never play with him with my fingers, and I’ve provided many toys. Marcel was found at only a couple of weeks old, without a mother. He’s adorable, but a such a brat! Will he just grow out of it? Will neutering help? I’m tired of mopping up my own blood.

~Belle

Siouxsie: Well, Belle, it sounds like there are a couple of issues here: First, Marcel is of an age where this kind of play is normal, but he’s carrying it out a way that hurts you. Second, as an orphaned and bottle-raised kitten he never had a chance to learn “cat manners.” But we think we can help you.

Thomas: First of all, we recommend that you abandon the spray bottle. It’s really not a good discipline tool, especially now that Marcel has gotten used to it. Once a cat no longer sees water spray as a deterrent, it just becomes part of the game.

Dahlia: Hissing can also be counterproductive, as you’ve found. Especially with a kitten who’s never learned “cat manners,” he probably doesn’t understand hissing as a symbol of “STOP THAT!”

Siouxsie: Instead, we recommend that when he behaves in a way that hurts you, you use the “No, And Down” technique. If he’s in your lap and he bites or scratches you, say “No” in a firm but calm voice and put him down on the floor. Then, don’t pay any attention to him for a few minutes.

Thomas: If you do this consistently, Marcel will begin to realize that he’s not going to get the attention he wants when he bites or scratches. This technique takes patience, and you have to do it every single time he does the undesirable behavior.

Dahlia: Belle, you’ve mentioned that you have lots of toys for Marcel. Do you have any interactive toys such as a fishing pole or thing-on-a-string toy? If you do, you need to play with him every day so he learns to use his hunting instincts on the toy rather than on you.

Siouxsie: The thing-on-a-string toy is also helpful for distraction. When you see Marcel starting to look like he’s ready to attack — hunkered down, maybe with his back legs stomping a little bit, tail tip twitching, and staring at the object of his fascination — pull out the string toy and take his attention away from your ankles or your feet.

Thomas: Don’t start the play after he’s attacked, though. That will actually reinforce the behavior because a positive result will come from clawing or biting you.

Dahlia: Finally, do you know how to play with Marcel in a way that gets his hunting instincts going?

Siouxsie: If you’re using a bird-like toy, make sure to incorporate frequent “landings” into the game. Birds don’t fly all the time, after all.

Thomas: “Freeze” the toy frequently. When the “prey” stays absolutely still, as if terrified, this can be very exciting. It’ll also allow Marcel a chance to think and plan his next move.

Dahlia: Vary the speed of your movements. Everything shouldn’t be fast. Incorporate creeping and crawling, and even just a slight quivering.

Siouxsie: Whenever Marcel gets the toy in his mouth, let him savor the victory.

Thomas: Yeah! I love it when I catch the toy and I get to chew on it for a few seconds while Mama tells me what a brave and puissant hunter I am!

Dahlia: And reward Marcel with a treat (or feed him dinner) after the game. After all, he caught the prey!

Siouxsie: We cats are designed to be sprinters, not marathon runners, so you may find that Marcel gets tired after 10 minutes or so. That’s normal. Several 5- to 10-minute play sessions a day will help him work some of that kitten energy out and he’ll be calmer with you.

Thomas: If he becomes aggressive while you’re petting him, watch his body language to see when he starts getting overstimulated. Usually the first sign will be that his tail will start twitching. When that happens, stop petting him and let him calm down. If you stop petting before he wigs out, it’ll make both of you happier.

Dahlia: We don’t often recommend this, Belle, but you might consider getting another cat so Marcel can have a friend to play with and a chance to learn proper cat manners. Kittens learn boundaries by playing with other cats. An orphaned kitten doesn’t have the opportunities for socialization that kittens born in a litter have. However, if you do bring another cat into your home, be sure to introduce the newcomer properly.

Siouxsie: Neutering may help curb some of the behavior issues, and as he gets to be a year or so old the “kitten crazies” will start to abate.

Thomas: But it’s really the retraining that will be most effective in the long run. The things Marcel learns as a kitten will carry through the rest of his life.

Dahlia: We hope this helps, Belle. Please let us know how things turn out!

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Comments

  1. says

    These are all great suggestions! I love the playing tips – there is nothing more fun than watching prey as it sits still and trying to anticipate its next move!

  2. Laura says

    This may seem like a strange suggestion, but I have a male kitten who is just about 4 months, also a whole lot of adorable trouble. I also have an older female cat, who amuses him when she’s in the mood, but the kitten still has a lot of energy to get out.

    Tin-foil balls. Seriously. Cats go insane over them. They’re super cheap, and they’ve amused my kitten literally for hours in ways that no toy I’ve ever bought has. I have never found a toy that my cats love as much as tin foil. He won’t chase any other type of ball-shaped toy, but he’ll chase a tin-foil ball. Whenever he looks like he’s about to start attacking me, I distract him by tossing one of them across the room and he’s happy for as long as he can keep it from going under the fridge – in which case I then have to go and fish it out, but it’s worth it!

  3. louise reynolds says

    Hi Belle

    Well i have 2, 4month old kittens and i was told that they are teething and thats why they bite. Might not be the prob but just said id share.x

  4. louise reynolds says

    please dont give your cats tinfoil balls because they bite them and swallow the bits this is NOT good for kitty.x

  5. Beth Shoenfeld says

    hi:) luna is about 7 weeks old. he is slowly learning that my hands and feet are not toys. consistancy along with appropriate fun distraction are the key. when he bites, i hold him gently by his scruff, firmly say no and lie him down in a submissive side position for a few seconds. i continue to do this until he gets the point. i give him plenty of toys to play with. also…very important….pick him up before he attacks and pet him gently. better to give him kisses and hugs before he has a chance to make a mistake. lol

  6. Jude says

    THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR THE TIN FOIL BALL HINT…………………………
    My 3 month old kitty ” Squirt ” has been attacking me something cronic.
    I have tried the water bottle treatment, this works for a short period then he’s right back to biting and scratching me silly.I have just made a couple of foil balls and WOW what a difference.
    “Squirt ” is finally getting the exercise and hunting experience that he needs while my poor legs,arms and hands start to mend.
    I am amazed at the immediate change in his behaviour and would reccomend this advice to EVERYONE who has a similar problem.
    Once again Thank You for this God send.
    Have a wonderful day….
    Jude

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